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Self-Esteem: Time To Start Healing Yours

Self-Esteem: You Either Have Or Need To Get Some “Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.” Iyanla Vanzant Idyllic is not a word you would use to describe my childhood or the home that I grew up in. Granted, a childhood neighbour told me she had no idea that my life was less than perfect. My mother had her masters in pretence. In all fairness

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Valentine Or None: It Matters Not

If #1 Is Taken Care Of Love is indeed in the air as Valentine’s Day approaches. This is a double-dose of love for me as my birthday is the day after. “Wait, I thought she was single, dateless and has no Valentine for a while now?” some of you are thinking. And you are absolutely right, I am all of that. Yet, those “conditions” will not cause me pain, distress or angst this Valentine’s Day. Since the beginning of this still New Year, Members of this community receives Weekday Wisdom©

The #1 Relationship Advice You Could Hear

The Low Down on Relationships You must have been told this so many times, we most certainly have repeated it here a bit since Motivational Monday: Relationships are hard! There are even pictures and stories about the challenges of relationships in the animal kingdom, showing us that the difficulties of interacting with another is not a human phenomenon.  “Relationships are hard work,” reads the caption on one of the pictures featured on Pitbull, “whether it’s about money, jealousy or just that you woke up on the wrong side of the bed,