What’s On Your Must Have Stuff List?

Skinniest Week:

stuffYesterday while watching television, a report came on that this week in October is the “skinniest” all of us will be. The explanation for this by the “expert” is that come next Monday, in the case of us Canadians, we will start eating up a storm! This led me to think not only about my Thanksgiving dinner menu. All the stuff that will be purchased and ate until January 1, 2017 rushed into my consciousness.

North Americans it seems are the leaders in consumerism. We buy just about every single ‘innovation’. We wait in lines from the crack of dawn to give our money for them! Stuff is the lord and master of so many of us. It is second only to food – hence the concern about weight gain over the next few months. While I stand to lose some pounds, my eating habits have changed a lot. So I might not be one of the millions packing on the pounds beginning Thanksgiving day and onward.

Looking around my sparsely furnished apartment, I see the progress made where it concerns decluttering. Yet, I still have my list of “Cannot Do Without Stuff.”

All This Stuff!

For the first twelve years of my life, we lived in the then middle class neighbourhood of Pembroke Hall in Kingston, Jamaica. Labels are not my favourite things but to contextualize this conversation about using less, it feels necessary to describe the social-economic background of my first community.

Frankly, for most of those years, I did not really understand what it meant to be “poor.” Judging from today’s standards and the political jargon of the time – I guess we were poor or at least residing on the border of poverty.

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Looking around our house you really could not tell that my mother was a “hustler” – doing anything and everything imaginable to keep a roof over our heads and our belly full. We had a Phillips stereo from the 1960’s, its matching television set, more glassware and cutlery than Ammars, bed linen galore, area rugs – everything that any ‘ghetto’ Martha Stewart would want in her home.

Did we need all of this stuff? No, we did not.


An Abundance Of Stuff

Considering that my mother never owned her own house, all these trappings decorated many rented accommodations.  My friends know that unlike most of them, I love relocating. Why? It was just something we did when I was growing up. I remember us moving six times in two years and twice into the same house under disguise. And all that stuff had to be carefully wrapped, packed and transported!

That tradition of regularly moving was passed on to me. Since her birth to when she moved out at 18 years old, my daughter has moved with me, including to Canada and around Edmonton, at least ten times. None of these moves had to do with us not being able to pay our rent, like my mother. Rather, we moved “up” as well as into our ‘owned’ home.

The accumulated moves over my life meant there was a lot and I mean a lot of stuff to pack, discard, give away, etc.

Am I done moving? No. I actually love it. However, the amount of stuff that would go with me is minimal. I am a re-born minimalist and cheap skate! LOL My current accommodation has the bare essentials and most of them were given to me, bought second-hand or inexpensive enough to have paid for themselves in the three months since purchased.

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Must Have List

stuffThere is few stuff that are ‘must-haves’ for me, aside from my medication. They are:

  1. Heinz Kitchen
  2. Good coffee
  3. Uggs winter boots (and my daughter has touted Flurries boots to me so this one is questionable)
  4. Eyeliner
  5. La Senza bra and underwear

Everything else is either negotiable, replaceable or I can do without.

What about you? What is on your “Must Have Stuff” list? Could you live with only five?

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Enjoy this skinny week!

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17 thoughts on “What’s On Your Must Have Stuff List?

  1. Hmm… my current must haves would include champagne, my planner, my phone, headphones, and lipstick. Otherwise I will be just fine!

  2. I know the feeling! When I moved from the mountains of NC to Raleigh, I could only take what I could fit in my 97 Honda! The biggest thing I brought were all my baking supplies, my knitting needles, and my memory foam mattress pad.

  3. Great list! Five thinks from me lip balm, my winter skechers, nivea cream, soya milk, coffee

  4. I have a huge problem decluttering my closet. It’s just so hard to get rid of my clothes and shoes.

  5. Ourfamilyworld

    We have lots of must-haves in the family like a projector, a high-tech fridge, etc. Love your post.

  6. [ Smiles ] Most of us go through those periods of having very little.

    For the record, the Universe is filled with abundance.
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  7. We lived in the same house for over 10 years! Forced to move due to a mega accident, went homeless for a while and learnt the value ot frugal and minimalistic living…DID I stop amassing stuff and hoarding? Nope…But I learnt to stop buying stuff that I dont need! Now We have what we need. I must say I like New stuff. Stuff I can put my spirit on, my stamp so to speak. So most of my furniture and utility stuff was bought new…Yet I ma not one to pass by a Brand New designer shoe in a thrift shop 🙂 Why buy it at premium on the high street when I can get it for peanuts!

  8. Elizabeth O.

    I’ve stayed in my home for a long time but I do travel a lot and that’s sort of the same if you do it so often. I can never live without a phone to call my twins on to update family about where I am and when I’ll be leaving.

  9. That’s my current issue at home but then again we don’t move a lot! I’ve given away tons of stuff, donated, gifted, call them whatever but despite that I still have a lot of clothes in my closet that I could really do without. What I can’t live with are my books!
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  10. DT

    i think my must-have would be lip-balm, oatmeal, coffee, water bottle, and a jacket!

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  11. Ileana

    I moved a lot in the last couple of years, but never while growing up! And for some reason, I saw how my parents kept keeping stuff… and now I try to be the opposite. If I do not use it I donate it. Also… no buying decorations! 😀

  12. Daniel

    I can my wife can’t. I think 90% of everything there is hers.

  13. If technology and basic necessities are included, the 5 things I cannot live without are:
    1. Lip balm
    2. Shea butter
    3. Eyeliner
    4. Lipstick
    5. Water bottle
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  14. Only 5 must haves that’s not many. And now that I actually sit down to think about it I’m not too sure. I definitely couldn’t do without my 3 cats and I guess books and maybe a bed lol
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  15. We’re getting ready to move back overseas, so we are chucking things out left right and centre. A great cleanse.

  16. I know I have quite a bit of stuff. Someday I’ll go through it all. I couldn’t live with only 5 items.
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  17. Must haves: Hmmm I have a few pari of Kelvins a great fit and very comfortable, socks from Tilley Endurables with a 3 year warranty & great comfort, good pair of runners, an a pair of black Bostonians dress shoes, 2 black, and 2 brown belts for casual or dress up, I really enjoy a good Apple laptop 13″ keeps me connected to the world, a half dozen european designed shirts for casual or dress up, and a good razor and gel.
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