6 Relationship Goals You Need To Set

Direction And Stability

relationship goals“The way I am running is not aimlessly; the way I am aiming my blows is so as not to be striking the air.” Setting relationship goals shows direction and stability. They create a sense of security and certainty. Have you differentiated goals within your relationship?

These relationship goals do not necessarily include material possessions but uncomplicated ways that will increase the longevity of your union and love for each other.

Six Relationship Goals For You

  1. Focus on being a better person

Prior to setting any other relationship goal, your focus ought to include developing you as an individual. Are there any attributes you could develop to make you a better mate? Do you have any habits that could be merrily flushed? Making regular self-assessments should afford you the opportunity to make the necessary adjustments.

Tip: Make an unbiased evaluation of who you are as an individual. If you need help, ask a close friend who is not afraid to spill the beans.


  1.   Pay attention to your role in the family

relationship goalsPrior to the development of our society, men went to work in the fields while women stayed home to take care of the family. Subsequently, this arrangement changed and a woman was found in a man’s chair. However, this does not change the family arrangement. Each member of a family has their unique role to play. A woman is primarily tasked with beautifying the home and making it a haven for her family, while a man is focused on providing for the overall needs and welfare of his family.

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This in no way insinuates that a woman should slave at home. A man should show consideration and help his wife where needed, just as a woman assists with paying the bills. By setting this as one of your relationship goals, i.e., taking care of one’s role, love and respect will flourish within the home.

Tip: Make a list of your roles as a husband and wife.


  1. Putting each other’s interest first

A relationship should not be based on selfishness. Couples should be willing to get things done for each other. Instead of putting your needs ahead of your mate’s, consider those of your mates first. Doing this, each of you will always be seeking new ways every day to make each other happier.

Tip: Before making a decision, consider how your spouse would feel. That will prompt you to discuss the matter with your mate, before making a decision.


  1. Improving communication skills

communicationCommunication is a vital ingredient to the success of a relationship. Lack of communication creates suspicion, insecurities, loneliness, and extensively infidelity.

A couple should make time to talk and discuss important matters within the family. Though each person may lead a busy life, it is not implausible to communicate during the day.

Tip:  Try to eat a meal together every day. Technology has also made it easier to communicate so use that to your advantage.


  1. Willingness to compromise

Couples should learn to find solutions to challenges. Though not easy, compromising works hand in hand with “putting each other’s interest first.” Do not always try to have things done your way. Two different minds will not always agree but you can come to an understanding for the sake of peace and your relationship.

Tip: Figure it out!


  1. Being better listeners

This relationship goal is important. Without trying to listen, applying the earlier tips is futile, “a chasing after the wind.” Since there is a “time for everything,” make it your goal to listen when your mate is speaking. Do not wander in thoughts.

Tip: Be slow about speaking… Do not allow your mouth and your partner’s to compete. This isn’t Family Feud.

They Are Not Easy

Putting these six relationship goals into practice is not and will not be easy. They however are not impossible and can be done with concerted effort. Simply ‘trying’ will go a far way.

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    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you very much! 🙂

  2. I believe Being present and Listening in whatever you do in a relationship matters. You will be able to
    hear the real message behind every action or word and “Respond” accordingly as opposed to “reacting” to situations….Communicating effectively comes closely next yet equally as important. Above all SELF LOVE….you cant give what you dont know how to give to Yourself. And you cant pour from an empty bowl, so you have to know that always thinking of others must stem from a place of love and joy not a place of self imposed responsibility or a sense of guilt.
    I like to think its essential to be open to agreeing to disagree many times as opposed to “compromise” because that engenders a feeling of accepting less than I am worth in order for the other to feel better or gain more. I am open to ideas and respect the other’s ability to think for themselves and expect the same from them although I am not hugely surprised if they dont give it…why? because we grew up in different cultures and homes so I know not to expect perfection…who is perfect?
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  3. Awesome post Claudette. I definitely would have to agree with all the points you mentioned in creating a better relationship goal, although it might be hard at times to follow. Thanks so much for sharing 🙂

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you so much for reading and leaving a comment. Just to clarify though, I did not write this – it is the work of one of my Contributors, Samantha Burris. 🙂

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