A Very Special Christmas Gift

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Monday night my world went dark. Two weeks after my second eye surgery, my new lens were acting up and the pain over my right eye was excruciating. A call earlier in the day to my surgeon’s office resulted in an emergency appointment. Granted, their idea of urgent was different from mine as he does clinic in the afternoons only. Hardly able to see, knowing that whatever was the problem it would not be seen to until the next afternoon and having popped more painkillers than is normal for me, going to bed early was the only option left. Worried that I would not be able to post the Christmas greetings from some of the Contributors, I prayed that morning would bring relief. Am I going blind? Is that the Christmas gift that is mine this year?

Christmas Gift List & Greeting

The meaning of this season has been much debated across the blogosphere, and it is one that I have not engaged in. But now, I am starting to ponder what it means for everyone. For my daughter, it is about getting everyone personalized christmas gifts and having a good family time. What has been true for me is that a Christmas gift is not the uppermost thing on my mind. Yes, as a joke I told my daughter the three material things that I would like for Christmas and in order of priority:

  1. The Sims 4 game
  2. A vacuΓΌm cleaner
  3. A slow cooker

Alexis Ali shared with us earlier this month a most interesting post – Dear Santa: My 3 Christmas Wishes. One of the three wishes was a material item. The other two were desires of her heart – to be somewhere special and with someone special. Have a read of that post here and share with us what would three such things or one Christmas gift be, one(s) that you really would like to have this year.

I will share mine but first, here is a Christmas greeting from Contributor, Clara Brown:

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Clara Brown

The lyrics of the popular Christmas Song is very fitting for me as I greet you all, my friends. Hugh Martin (Composer) and Ralph Blaine (Lyrics) had a tremendous idea when they put this popular song together. No doubt, Christmas meant to them what it means to me: Friends, family and all this:

“Have yourselves a merry little Christmas

Let your heart be light.

From now on, your troubles will be out of sight.

So have yourself a Merry Little Christmas JOY

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I know that for a lot of us, we started the year with friends and loved ones who have since left us. In leaving, there are empty chairs, empty place-settings at our tables but we are still here. Our mandate is to continue to live and love. Commit during this Yuletide Season to make it purposeful, full of joy-giving and joy-getting. I greet and wish you much Love, Peace and Yuletide Joy.

My Christmas Gift Of Choice

Back to the Christmas gift. Notice it is singular and not plural. Unlike my dear friends and Contributors; and despite naming three items that I would have liked for Christmas, there is only one thing that I need. Having spent so many Christmases alone, without any sort of gifts and watching others receive simple things as their Christmas gift, I have come to learn that I need only one myself.

christmas giftAt 50 years of age this year, about seven Christmases were spent with me, myself and I for different reasons, including the end of a long-term relationship, living in a new city by myself and my daughter choosing to spend Christmas Day with others with whom I do not have a relationship. I am somewhat of a loner and so these experiences of the holidays, although a few tears were shed, were learning moments for me, opportunities to reflect on my journey to each point and appreciate what graced my table.

Although my childhood was not necessarily an happy one, Christmas was the only time of the year that there was ever a sense of family. As a result, I have grown to be very protective of that memory and therefore unwilling to water down the experience in the company of those who are not family – by blood or by choice. I would rather spend Christmas alone with what I consider my Source than in the company of people just because.

christmas giftSo, to follow in my colleague’s footsteps, as we approach the big day, regarding my Christmas gift, my Dear Santa letter would go like this:

Dear Santa,

All I want for Christmas this year is Peace for my family members, my granddaughter especially, for my friends wherever they are and for the world. I know that people pray for Peace daily in different parts of the world and for different reasons. I know that many things are done in the name of Peace as well. Yet, the Peace that I ask for is one that abides in a heart that is accepting that “all things are indeed working together for good” and knowing that there is truly enough for us all.

Santa, I know there are people without a place to call home. I visited one this week and saw men and women laying on cots in dormitories. There are people this year Santa, that a Christmas gift is the last thing on their minds, much preferring a guarantee that they will not be bombed or maimed in a bombing. Then there are the people who seem to have everything – a house, furnishing, plenty of food, a family, a job – but they do not have Peace. They are in desperate search for it, buying even more than they need or can really afford; cursing and judging others for what they have or the “god” they worship. Some are in so much distress (which they will not admit) that they are killing others, abusing their man-given power to target and denigrate those they consider inferior by race or religion – even politics.

Santa, if you could help us all to find this Peace that “passeth all understanding,” the one that would help us to be more understanding, caring, considerate, respectful and tolerant if not completely accepting of each other, I know you would need not leave your home another wintry night in December. That is the Christmas gift that I would like – Peace, not on Earth, but in all of our hearts. Then it will pour out into the world.

Thank you Santa!

This being the eve of Christmas Eve, we will not be publishing full posts for the rest of the week. Our regular posts will return on Tuesday, December 29. You are invited to subscribe and receive email updates of our posts over the next few days and in the New Year when we will have new offerings, including more E-books. Have you downloaded the latest yet? Get “Before The Year Ends,” here and start working with it today and let us enter 2016 on the best footing together.

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Have a blessed holiday!


Claudette P. Esterine


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35 thoughts on “A Very Special Christmas Gift

  1. Eileen xo

    I have a family member in a difficult relationship that strains everyone in attendance of this family members significant other It makes me so uncomfortable and I long for all to have peace

    1. Ms Claudette

      Isn’t that the worse – when a happy gathering turns uncomfortable. There are lessons to be learned for you all – maybe different for each person – and one of them might be sharing the feelings of the group with this family member?

  2. What I want for Christmas is quite and creative time for me myself and I. lol

    1. Ms Claudette

      I hope you got it? Now, on to 2016! Blessings! πŸ™‚

  3. dltolley

    I asked only for peace this year s well. Peace for this troubled-at times horrifying-world. In the time spent with my family, I received peace to my soul. And that’s a good start!

    1. Ms Claudette

      Always, always a great start to have peace in one’s soul. I got the same gift. Much love and blessings Diane! πŸ™‚

  4. Sims 4? Interesting! I got crazy with Sims before, and that was still Sims 1 I guess! I really hope you have a nice Christmas. I hope everything is doing well with your eye surgery.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Yes, my daughter got me hooked on Sims — Sims 2 it was and I have been on the line ever since! Played quite a bit over the holidays, will get a few more hours in today and then that’s it, back to work! πŸ™‚ Hope you had a great Christmas! πŸ™‚

  5. I feel like I’m in the same boat with regards to the holiday lonelies. Mine have been for 1 year. I will spend my year making it an unlonely one though.

    1. Ms Claudette

      I really hope you were successful! I spent my time in reflection for the most part. Let us know get ready for 2016! πŸ™‚

  6. katrina g

    I hope you have a great Christmas.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Same to you and a Happy New Year, Katrina! πŸ™‚

  7. It’s a lovely idea to only ask for one material thing each Christmas! I think everyone could benefit from being less materialistic and more appreciative of the things that really matter. Personally I no longer want or expect material things for Christmas, and simply ask for the one thing that I feel is priceless: time with my loved ones.

    1. Ms Claudette

      I so hear you on that! So hear you! Hope you got your most priceless gift this year! Namaste πŸ™‚

  8. All I wish for is a healthy and a positive year! Merry Christmas!

    1. Ms Claudette

      Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, Yonca! πŸ™‚

  9. I hope you have a lovely Christmas – I cannot wait to see my childrens faces, and be together on Christmas Day. Kaz x

    1. Ms Claudette

      So, did you take pictures of those wonderful faces? Please share. Hope you had a truly wonderful time! πŸ™‚

  10. the best gifts we can give are ones that impact the rest of the world. peace is a wonderful gift if only we can all commit to give it

    1. Ms Claudette

      As the song says, “let peace begin in me.” If each of us could take that seriously and lie it – we would be in a much better place. Hope you had a wonderful holiday! πŸ™‚

  11. Elizabeth O.

    That’s a very thoughtful wish, you truly have a good heart. I hope you have a Merry Christmas! We all deserve to have a bit of fun and love for ourselves as well as the people we love.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you Elizabeth and I hope you and yours enjoyed the Holidays! πŸ™‚

  12. About three years ago I went through something similar with my eye. I understand the excrutiating pain, I hope you are feeling better. I do agree though that peace in people’s hearts is what the world needs right now.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you very much Heather – they are getting better. Gave them some rest and more meds over the last three days! Hope you had a wonderful holiday! πŸ™‚

  13. I want someone who will do all my housework for me for free…LOLROTF…I hate housework with a vengeance….I will cook but that is about it…the other things I do kicking and screaming.

    1. Ms Claudette

      I am like you, I hate housework so do it as minimally as possible – kicking and screaming! πŸ™‚

  14. My material gift is a Kitchen aid stand mixer. Non-material is for my children to be sucessful in their jobs.

    1. Ms Claudette

      So did you get your material gifts? I am knowing with you that your children will enjoy every success! πŸ™‚

  15. Peace in our hearts definitely would spill out into the world! I wish you and your family a most wonderful and peaceful Christmas!

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you very much! I hope you had a beautiful time! πŸ™‚

  16. I hope that your eye recovers! All I want for Christmas is relaxation and peace πŸ™‚ Merry Christmas x

  17. Robin Rue (@massholemommy)

    I asked for a vacuum cleaner this year, too. I want a Dyson.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Great minds think alike, Robin! LOL. Merry Christmas my darling! πŸ™‚

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