Relationship, It Is What Matters Most

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Every Friday, we present a roundup of the best and most read posts of the week and for every time that I do so, a smile comes across my face. Why?

What interests you, our readers, is uppermost in my mind, right along with the aim of this blog, which is to be “Always Inspiring, Insightful and In-depth.” I take that commitment seriously as this is as much about enhancing our presence on social media as it is about truly helping even one on every given day. My relationship with you is at the core of what we present here. In yesterday’s post, the importance of being original was discussed. While I would love for you to visit with us every day, share our posts with your friends and others that you have a relationship with and leave comments, basically help us grow – sharing practical tips is far more important.

Doing the back office work, checking what you read most on this blog, what you respond well to is an important task for me. It helps me improve our relationship with you. Usually on Fridays, I do a roundup post that highlights the best and most read articles of the week. Our week runs Saturday to Friday, granted we now are guaranteed to post only on weekdays. Taking a couple of days off some weeks is how we replenish and renew our energies to help our focus and efforts in this relationship-building blog.

November is ahead…

Now almost at the end of October, I decided to do a round-up for the month as there might or might not be a post here on the actual day – it being Halloween and all. To my surprise, and what brought on the smile, was that the top three posts of the month all had relationship at the centre. You, our readers, this month were most interested in matters of the heart.

Surprise, surprise! How could that be on a blog that does not focus on making money, get rich quick deals, promoting all sorts of products whether we truly believe in them or not or telling you how to blog better?

We do not, as of yet, have the audience size that many of my colleagues enjoy. As a focussed and professional blog and blogger, this one has been around less than six months. So young that Google has yet to rank it, although we are doing fine with other website ranking services. Every day, I invite you to subscribe and join our conversation. Some have taken up the offer but not as many, as yet, as the social media experts tell us (for a price) that they can teach anyone how to get.

Best Relationship Posts of October

You matter most.

The thing is, I am not concerned about ranking, audience size, popularity rating, and any other such matters. Relationship – having one and nurturing one with every soul that chooses to spend 10 or more minutes a day with me here is what is important. Seems that is important to those who visited throughout October as well. They were checking out the following conversations:

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#3 – Wellness and Your Next Relationship was actually written and posted in September, however, it became one of your favourites. Could this excerpt be the reason:

“People hate to accept that relationships end. I know that was true of me. Those who particularly dislike this type of comment are the ones who are in committed, long-term relationships, married for a zillion years. Yet, is death not the end of the relationship in its physical form? What has become very clear to me as I have embraced this unchanging truth, is that my “connections” are fewer. My “relationships” are more intense, meaningful and mutually beneficial as the external trappings have been replaced by a deeper concern for quality.” Claudette P. Esterine

Check out the post and share with me, either in the comment section below it or here, whether you are ready for your next relationship or to take the one you are in to the next level.

#2 – Sex Trafficking: Today’s Slavery is not the classical relationship post. One might say it is actually not about relationships at all. They would be wrong. Prostitution, human trafficking and the sex trade in general are aspects of humanity going awry. They are some of the most base examples of people being out of touch with our true nature which is Love. Sex trafficking and those involved in it are serving people around the world who have failed to form a genuine relationship with themselves, first, and with others around them. Many who are involved on the purchasing end of the business – the Johns – are married but are not in a relationship with their partners. That is sad.

blog contributor
Katelyn Roth

This post was also published in September and written by Katelyn Roth, one of our regular Contributors. She shared the story of the lowest of lows, in my opinion, of the sex trade – the children ensnared in prostitution:

“According to police reports, the number of sex trafficking victims almost tripled in just one year – between 2011 and 2012. The Department of Justice estimates that anywhere from 100,000 to 300,000 children are at risk for entering the commercial sex trade in the United States. These statistics make the commercial exploitation of US children and youth tied with illegal arms trade as the second largest and fastest criminal enterprise, after the illicit drug.  In Wichita alone, between 300 and 400 youth are at risk of sex trafficking each year.”

Katelyn’s post was the second in a four-part series. Do check it out and again, share your thoughts with us on the subject as well as across social media to help continue raising awareness about this godawful affair.  [tweetthis]You want to read this blog post about trafficking of US children for the sex trade![/tweetthis]

Neelma Tashfeen

#1 Wanted: A Man To Pay The Bills was the most visited and read post of October. Most definitely one about relationship, it broadened the conversation beyond the heart to the pockets – the men in relationships pocket. It was the only post of the top three that was written and published in October.  Another interesting thing about this post, is that it was written from the voices of three of our female Contributors. Each woman brought their spin to the conversation, sharing as we always do from their personal experience of relationship – with a man or in one case with a family member. Read Katelyn’s, Neelma’s and Clara’s views on wanting a man you are in a relationship with to pay your bills and share your thoughts on the subject with us.

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Coming In November

In the coming month, November, in response to the request of one reader we will be doing this kind of post again. Two in fact. The first will be on “emptiness” as I mentioned in a post earlier this month. Our Contributors, including Alexis Ali, will open up and share their experiences of emptiness and offer some suggestions how to fill up again.

Contributor, Claudette P. Esterine
Alexis Ali
Clara Brown

As regular readers might have noticed, the men of this blog have been missing in action. Both male Contributors have been away taking care of their businesses and we respect them for that. Whether they will return is an open question. In the meanwhile, we women will continue to keep the fire burning, set the table with the delights we have planned, continue to share with you our thoughts on topical and “heartical” issues that are of relevance to women across the world.

The fourth most read post of October was one of mine and one in which I offered you a tool to support you in any kind of relationship. It is my Fear S.W.A.P © that you are free to use and share. However, as I asked yesterday in my post on being original, please remember that it is copyrighted so the source (me) must be credited. Do visit the Letting Go section of this blog for a collection of posts and other resources to support you as you move toward the life and relationship you really want to create and cultivate.

We thank you ever so much for continuing to visit, comment and share this blog with your friends, family and audiences. Do consider subscribing and joining the conversations we have here daily. A FREE subscription gets you a daily email update of our post, as well as my monthly newsletter, KB Life, and affirmation poster. Your privacy is guaranteed and I will never spam you.

To those of you who observe Halloween, have a great time! To all others, have a great time over the weekend as well! Keep in touch via my Facebook page as well as on Twitter. Did you know that I am on Pinterest too? Yes, I am indeed and have many more posts, recipes and tidbits that you might enjoy.


Claudette P. Esterine


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52 thoughts on “Relationship, It Is What Matters Most

  1. Having an authentic relationship with your audience is super important!

    1. Ms Claudette

      It most certainly is! 🙂

  2. Your post is Epic make me think about stuff which is a good think. I was wondering where did all the male bloggers but then again there is not many male presents on my website. Thanks for sharing.

    1. Ms Claudette

      They are around – Robert will make an appearance by month’s end, definitely by December. Thanks for visiting. 🙂

  3. danavento

    you have great posts. glad to have discovered you and all your offer. !

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you so much for such a wonderful compliment. 🙂

  4. i love the roundup post on relationships. You’ve got great posts here..looking forward reading more from you 🙂

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you so much Jojo! We look forward to interacting more with you as well! 🙂

  5. Totally love the informative, inspirational tone of your posts – keep up the great work!

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you very much! 🙂

  6. You have so many wonderful articles I can’t imagine ANY of them not being on top of popularity list! I love this idea however! It warms my heart too when I get comments on my posts!

    1. Ms Claudette

      Isn’t it such a great feeling? You do what you do out of love but it feels nice hearing even from one that you helped even a tiny bit! Namaste Joely! 🙂

  7. CourtneyLynne

    Omg what a great post. So much valuable info! I will have to check some of these other post in the roundup out!

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you Courtney! Please do and let us know what you think! 🙂

  8. I enjoy these round-up posts. It’s always interesting to see if the posts that I found most useful/interesting/helpful are the same as others. Keep up the great work, Claudette and the rest of your contributors.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you Shann! So which was your choice? Either way, I am so glad that you visited again. 🙂

  9. Your thoughts and style in writing is interesting.

    1. Ms Claudette

      I am glad that you find it so – if that is a good thing! LOL. I am still glad that you popped in. 🙂

  10. I love reading your interesting and in depth blog posts, I look forward to the delights next month 🙂

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you Claire, thank you very much! And we do have a few interesting things planned, including our series on “Emptiness” which starts this week. 🙂

  11. You write so well. I LOVE reading your post. They are very inspirational.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you so much Jessica, thank you! 🙂

  12. Your posts are always so information. I enjoy reading them. Keep up the great work!

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you very much Stephanie! Your feedback is much appreciated! 🙂

  13. Your posts are always to real and inspiring. I also never thought to do a roundup post. This was cool.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you very much! Your feedback is much appreciated. 🙂

  14. Claudette you are such a strong writer, you write with such passion and emotion that readers are swept up in your lyrical prose. Number two was my favourite, many think that prostitution is not a relationship but it is- not mutual perhaps but it is a bond nevertheless.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Indeed it is a bond of sorts, sad to say regarding the prostitution piece. Thank you for your kind comment about my writing. It is very much appreciated and humbling as it calls me to do even better. 🙂 Namaste

  15. I love coming here and reading your articles. I’m looking forward to reading more great articles here.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Why thank you! 🙂

  16. I love your round up post and looking forward to reading your articles next month

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you and we will do our best to keep and improve on our standard! 🙂

  17. victoria

    I never done a round up post. I love this post you’re such a good Writer and at the same time its great to see all your favorite post

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you so much Victoria! 🙂

  18. Elizabeth O.

    I learn a lot from reading your posts everyday. And in all honesty, I enjoy reading them. I love it when I read about different life experiences, I think that helps me understand other people more.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Well, I am happy that you enjoy reading our posts! Thank you for visiting and leaving a comment! Namaste. 🙂

      1. Elizabeth O.

        Sure thing! Your posts are always worth reading!

        1. Ms Claudette

          Thank you Elizabeth! That means a lot to me! Namaste 🙂

  19. Always an interesting read! I really like the round up, will you be doing this all the time?

    1. Ms Claudette

      For now, yes, I will continue doing until something “better” evolves. Thanks for visiting. 🙂

  20. This is a cool way to feature all your favorite posts and ones that did well for you!

    1. Ms Claudette

      Not our favourite but our readers favourites and yes, this method works well for us. Have a great weekend! 🙂

  21. i have never done or read a round up post but i really enjoyed this. it is also great to examine what was the most read and see where you can go from there

    1. Ms Claudette

      And I enjoy it when you enjoy our roundup posts and in fact all our posts! Thank you so much for visiting. 🙂

  22. its really refreshing to see a blog who cares not about the rankings or or how many followers they have. Your blog, is very deep and thought out – this post was great! I agree with the end of relationships….even tho in reality the end of a relationship happened a long time, it is only when it end physically that we accept it.
    The sex traffiking is scary….
    November looks like another great month! Its clear that you put your heart into this, and i really like it!!
    Claire 🙂 xx

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you so much, thank you! You did a great roundup of our post and our mission yourself! 🙂 I do hope you will enjoy our November offerings! Namaste 🙂

  23. I like the one about wanting a man to pay the bills. I hope they look for more than that in a man.

    1. Ms Claudette

      We all agree with you! 🙂 Thanks for stopping by! 🙂

  24. Thanks for the great round up of your posts! I love all of your posts, but the round up makes it even better 🙂

    1. Ms Claudette

      Awwww…thank you so much and for your continued support! 🙂

  25. Robin Rue (@massholemommy)

    Looking forward to what you have coming up in November. October was full of interesting posts.

    1. Ms Claudette

      Thank you! We put and pour our hearts into what we post here so your comment is much appreciated. 🙂

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